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My name is Kat, yes, it’s my real name. I am a 36 year old real time lifestyle dominant who lives in southern California but will be moving back home to Texas this summer. I am married and have a poly relationship. My husband is aware I play with other subs and have relationships of varying degrees, including sexual, with others. I have references and can provide my husband's contact information if you would like to verify that I am not "cheating".
I chat at the pork and I read and participate in discussion forums. That's about it. I have no problem with reds. If you irritate me, I’ll just ignore you. If you are in the area (either CA or TX) or travel to those areas, feel free to contact me to see if we click and there’s potential for play. I don’t do cyber scenes very often and if I do it’s to get a drink or maybe light play that has at least a real edge to it if I’m in the mood and feel like indulging in a bit of fantasy. But note that it IS rare, so if you are looking for continual scenes, I’m not the one for you. I may, if there’s a lot of chemistry, indulge in some long distance domination, but it will be real assignments and tasks. Again, this is rare and I have to really click with you because it takes a lot of effort to do. If you are married and do not have permission from your spouse to play, move it along. I’m not interested in contributing in any way to another person’s (nonconsensual) pain.
I work a lot and I play hard. I am more easily found on IM’s than in the Pork but I am here off and on depending on my schedule. I enjoy edge play and pushing limits. There are many aspects of the lifestyle in which I am highly skilled. There are many aspects of the lifestyle in which I am interested but have limited skill or experience in. There are very few aspects to the lifestyle in which I have no interest. I will let you know what those are. I play as safely as possible. I do not engage in unsafe sex, ever, including with my husband. I am drug and disease free and get tested regularly. I am not as involved with local groups as I once was but still am to some extent. I anticipate renewing my interest when I get back home. I sure miss those people…
Whether we play in real time or you are someone who catches me during an odd moment when I’m in the mood to play online, I will not do anything with you until I get to know you. That doesn’t mean ask 20 questions and blammo that’s it. I don’t reveal a lot about myself to people until I have a deeper sense of who they are. I expect it’s the same with most people. So getting to know someone takes time. If you have any other questions, just ask.
Fastest way to piss me off: make feline references because of my name. "Here kitty kitty", etc. It is without a doubt my #1 biggest chat pet peeve. My real name is Kat. It starts with a K not a c. If you can't make the distinction, go back to elementary school.
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 |  |  | | Age: | | | Marital Status: | Married | Number of Children: | 2 | | Education: | Prefer not to say | Religion: | Spiritual but not religious |
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| | | | | Gender: | Female | Body Type: | Voluptuous | | Eye Color: | Green | Hair Color: | Brown | | Ethnicity: | White / Caucasian | Height: | 172cm ~ 5'8" |
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| | | | | City: | La Habra | State/Prov.: | California | | ZIP/Postal Code: | 90631 | Country: | United States | | Time Zone: | Pacific time (US & Canada), Tijuana |
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| | | | | Smoker: | Social | Drinker: | Social | Drugs: | Never |
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| | | | | a country drive, a drive-in movie, a horse-drawn carriage ride, a picnic, a secret location, a walk along the beach, a walk in the park/forest, a weekend getaway, celebrating special dates, champagne on ice, chivalry/gallantry, cooking a meal, cuddling by a roaring fire, dinner by candlelight, dressing up for dinner, going to the opera, going to the theater, holding hands, listening to music, love letters, love notes in special places, love poems, ordering in food, random acts of kindness, slow dancing, snuggling by the TV, special deliveries, stargazing, surprise gifts, watching a sunset/sunrise |
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| | | | | autobiographies, baking, best-selling novels, board games, cards, chatting on the Web, collecting, cooking, darts, doing absolutely nothing, horseback riding, listening to music, meditation, mystery novels, non-fiction, rock climbing, shopping, sleeping, spending time alone, surfing the Web, traveling, visiting a park, volunteering, watching sports, working out |
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| | | | | a curious mind, a sense of humor, a sense of justice, a strong work ethic, an entrepreneurial spirit, being a good listener, being non-judgmental, common sense, compassion, education/high intellect, following a healthy lifestyle, generosity, good manners, having a zest for life, integrity, knowing what you want from life, loyalty, non-materialism, open communication, open-mindedness, openness, optimism, patriotism, pragmatism, putting your family first, respect for animals, respect for other cultures, respect for the environment, self-knowledge/awareness, sensitivity, showing affection freely, social consciousness, spirituality, taking life as it comes, the ability to laugh at yourself, thoughtfulness |
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| | | | a beard, a foot/back massage, a hot tub, a moustache, a muscular body, a petite figure, a queen-sized body, a slow hot oil massage, being undressed slowly, body piercing, classical music, dirty dancing, erotic movies, extended foreplay, french kissing, hard rock music, incense, latex clothing, leather clothing, lights on during sex, lips/tongues, oral sex, reading erotic literature, satin sheets, scented candles, sex talk, sharing my fantasies, soul/funk/blues music, spanking, talking dirty in bed, tall height, tattoos, teasing with a feather, unusual locations for sex, voyeurism, whispering in my ear |
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| | | | | a threesome, anything goes, being dominant/ a master, bondage, conventional sex only, cross-dressing, discipline, fetishes, oral sex, role playing, sex talk, spanking, swinging/partner swapping, tantric sex, using sex toys, video-taping, visiting a "swinging" club, whips |
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| | | | | a Don Juan, a femme fatale, a non-virgin, a sense of humor, aggressiveness, always practices safe sex, asks what I want, confidence, discretion/secrecy, gentleness, good personal hygiene, good with their hands, high-sex drive, imagination, likes routine, likes to give oral sex, likes to go slow, likes to receive oral sex, likes to watch, likes to work fast, lots of stamina, not possessive, says what they want, someone I can teach, someone to teach me, will let me take control, willingness to experiment |
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