i've been sitting here, trying to figure out what glorious things i could say about myself, which might make Yyou interested in me......something that would pop out at Yyou......for Yyou to think, "Wow......she's great!".......but then i decided that rather than making myself something i'm not, i'll simply be me......and if Yyou aren't interested in the beautiful person i am inside, then it's Yyour loss......*soft look*......
i'll begin with the simple things......
***my real name is Amy Alicia......i use alicia in the chat rooms for a special reason, which i might explain later if Yyou so choose to ask me.....
*** my daughter's name is alicia marie....and she was born on Valentine's Day, 2001. She is my angel and i'm very proud of her. *huge grin* my son's name is Dylan Forrest, and he was born in October of 2005. He's a stinker, but i love him.
*** i am married to a wonderful man in r/t......His name is Danny......He doesn't chat on the computer, so Yyou won't be seeing Him here.
*** i have a Special Education degree from Texas Tech University.....i graduated in 1994 and taught Special Education for 4 years.
*** i currently live in Iowa.....a big risk of moving from Texas, practically the only home i knew for many years, to a place i had never been.....THAT'S a long story within itself, but has been the best thing i ever did.
*** i work as a juvenile justice program coordinator which i absolutely love, and it is extremely rewarding.*** What i would REALLY like to be doing, is to go to Graduate School however, and get my Master's Degree in Social Work.
Ok, on to the nitty gritty......
*** i am a very sensitive person.....i am quiet and shy at times, yet at other times, i can be very stubborn about things that i believe in......i have found, that not Mmany really know me, because what my intentions are, don't necessarily come out the way that i want them to be.....i often get misunderstood, and then i end up getting to be more quiet than usual.....if Yyou choose to talk to me, please be patient, because i often have a hard time finding the right words to express my thoughts. *soft look*
*** What turns me on the most, is NOT having cybersex, or watching an arrogant person flaunt H/himself or Hherself about the room......the thing that turns me on the most quite frankly, is intelligence......if Yyou cannot talk to me in an adult manner and have a decent conversation with me, then don't bother.....i get annoyed with the sex chat, unless i know Oone very well.
*** intelligence and a sense of humor will get Yyou far.....i love to chat with Oothers who have something to say.......O/ones who are educated, and have goals in T/their lives.....AND who know how to accomplish them.
*** i am stubborn and bull headed......but i NEED Oone to put me in my place.....but NOT by humiliating me, and making me feel stupid.....i need Oone who is strong and smart......NOT whining and complaining every time i cannot come into the room due to r/t interefernce......the One thing that i hold true to my heart, is that r/t ALWAYS comes first.....i have a family to take care of, and i cannot be in the rooms 24/7, as i'd like to be sometimes......please understand that, and be patient with me.....
*** i am sweet and sincere......but if pushed due to being lied to, then all hell breaks loose. *tries to hold the halo above my head*......i do not do well with backstabbers and manipulators, although i have been known to be called those very things......and i have worked hard to avoid those titles.
*** When i love Ssomeone, i give my all......and i expect the same in return.....i would honor and cherish that person with all of my heart and soul.....but if taken for granted, i will walk away, without a backward's glance.....
*** i am NOT looking for a relationship, that will intermingle with r/t......as i have stated earlier, i am involved in r/t, so whatever relationship that forms here, must stay HERE.....i can distinguish the differences.....
*** i am a very independent person......i get annoyed easily with Tthose who do not understand that......actually, i should become a Domme, but somehow i think i would screw that up as well.....*chuckles*.....i'm just too damned timid and sensitive at times....
*** i do have limits, which i will not get into here.....but i have them, and i wish them to be respected......perhaps not agreed upon, but at least respected. *quiet nod*
********ok.....i think i've given Yyou enough......all Yyou need to do is talk to me.......Yyou never know what surprises Yyou may get. *quiet smile* |