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Posted 6/18/2012 12:34:40 PM
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First off i'd like to say Hi to all the Masters out their and thank you for taking the time to read a submissives post.

would you say being a Dominant or Submissive go beyond sex and gender or are you still limited to the sex and gender that you are attracted?

for example i would consider myself straight, but if a dominant man came up to me and told me to swallow him, i would with little hesitation. but i still dont find men attractive just dominance.


a humble servent in the presense of Masters,
SissyJay

p.s.
i'm still looking for a Dominant online superior (male or female)


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Posted 6/18/2012 4:55:55 PM


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In My humble opinion, submission is not just limited to what gender someone is.

I have had male submissives in the past, though would say I am predominately attracted to female submissives.

However, I will not limit Myself to that, should I see a male submissive that catches My attention.

Have known some amazing male and female submissives.

Hope that helps.

NyteRunner

"People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost."
~ H. Jackson Brown

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Posted 6/19/2012 8:23:43 AM
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I have known people who have been able to dominate people of genders to whom they were not physically attracted. or them, it wasn't also a romantic/sexual relationship. I could personally never do that, but it's not unheard of


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Posted 6/19/2012 4:51:14 PM
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Thanks! to both of you, i value your opinions. i know now, what i'm looking for in a dominant. this is really a great site! i'm glad to have stumbled upon it.
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Posted 7/28/2012 9:04:16 PM
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I try not to limit myself by gender when playing in public. I take pride in my skills and admit enjoy showing them off publicly. I'm flattered whenever someone comes up to me seeking to be reduced to a quivering puddle of goo on the floor. It doesn't really matter to me the gender.

I will admit that it took me awhile to get over some of my hang-ups. I'm not a large and imposing Dom, so for awhile I tended to shy away from topping men who were larger than me. It was an especially prideful day when I got over my hesitations and pushed my first bear deep into subspace.

Typically when it comes to long term submissive training I lean toward women, but that's mostly because the relationship often goes beyond what's involved at a social gathering.
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Posted 2/16/2013 6:10:28 PM
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I have never had a male sub but I have considered taking on a male slave. One of my dreams has actually been to own a very large home and to have a eunuch butler who ran the house. You might think it odd but I don't mind.
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