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I'm a male dom with limited experience, I am looking for an online sub with a wild side. My interests are all over the place, so tell Me how you will best service Me. I will accept aplications from any female or male, though if male, I prefer twink/fem bois. I look forward to hearing from My new sub!
-Master Hawk
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| I am a new slave and a female blonde hair blue eyes and around 5'7 I will love to be ur online pet and will serve you as a slave should serve a master
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| I'm a new sub 19 brown hair and brown eyes, 5'10. I'm looking for a Master who can push my limits a little but understands that I'm in college and have classes. I would be happy to serve you Sir.
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da9216 (2/26/2012)
I'm a new sub 19 brown hair and brown eyes, 5'10. I'm looking for a Master who can push my limits a little but understands that I'm in college and have classes. I would be happy to serve you Sir.
Firstly..
Hi da9216 welcome to the Pork and especially the D/s and BDSM section and forums attached.
We do hope that you have a very pleasant time here and as you are new that you are able to learn a few things by joining us in the rooms and taking part in discussions etc.
Secondly.. SLOW DOWN.. please..
I know its all exciting and new.. we all started out somewhere but you are jumping into things head first without reralising what you are doing.. (More a case of listening to the want and not listening to reason..)
D/s and BDSM is not something that should be taken lightly.. there are a good number of us here who have numerous years of experience on the subject and have practised not just online but practise in real time as well. Also D/s and BDSM isnt like a fairy tale it can hurt and there are all sorts of things that can happen if you dont take the right precations..being well armed with knowledge is the first step that you should take.. and learning goes on throughout your journey.. I've been doing this for years and I still am learning things..
The first thing that you should do is to introduce yourself to us.. tell us of your thoughts and where/what you want to learn and understand.. do you have limits.. do you have any experience.. how did you come to think that you were a submissive ? (note I say submissive and not sub.. a sub is something I go buy for lunch sometimes).. a submissive is someone who I train and/or have a relationship with.
Jumping in and replying to an advert as you did could have serious consequences to you especially if the advert was placed by someone just trolling for a quickie as we call it.. Sadly there are many who do just that thinking that a submissive is *easy meat* and that they will do anything the so called dominant says *because* they are supposed to and not think to question (btw I'm not saying that the advert above WAS one of those I am using it as an example).
When looking into any relationship you must get to know the person over a period of time.. you wouldnt just go out and get married after going out for a drink with a stranger now.. would you?
In a D/s relationship its even deeper than normal.. there should be plenty of communication before ANY thought to take up a relationship let alone a collar which some people think is like a fashion accessory.
Take your time.. read the forums.. come to the rooms and say hello and ask questions.. we dont bite too hard.. (well some of us do.) I can assure you of a warm welcome in the rooms and if you see me come say hello and I willbe happy to answer your questions.
*S*
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hey!!!
thanks for the advice and while i must say that yes I am new to this..... ive been reading and watching for over 2 years.
I know this is something i really want but i think your right. I'll take my time a feel out the whole online scene
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da9216 (2/27/2012)
hey!!!
thanks for the advice and while i must say that yes I am new to this..... ive been reading and watching for over 2 years.
I know this is something i really want but i think your right. I'll take my time a feel out the whole online scene
*smiles* you are very welcome.. just take your time and ease into things.. and come say hello if you see me in the rooms.. 
Have fun *s*
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