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R.I.P. Turtle momma
Eoraptor
12/11/2017   
 
Member
Those of you who know me well on this board know my mother had been terminally ill for very long time. This Saturday, Dec 9, 2017, she passed away at her home due to respiratory arrest.
Right this moment, I cannot tell you how exhausted I am for a number of reasons, and how scared I am for myself. I have been her 24x7 care for the past years, and supporting her longer than that. I have no income to support myself on at this time, so on top of everything else, I will be trying to figure out where I land. The short of it is that I will not be online very much for the foreseeable future. you can PM me through the pork, or email me
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12/11/2017
 
Eoraptor
Member
Those of you who know me well on this board know my mother had been terminally ill for very long time. This Saturday, Dec 9, 2017, she passed away at her home due to respiratory arrest.
Right this moment, I cannot tell you how exhausted I am for a number of reasons, and how scared I am for myself. I have been her 24x7 care for the past years, and supporting her longer than that. I have no income to support myself on at this time, so on top of everything else, I will be trying to figure out where I land. The short of it is that I will not be online very much for the foreseeable future. you can PM me through the pork, or email me
Post #1040936
_M_
12/11/2017   
 
Member
My prayers and condolences to you, sir

I hope you can take comfort in knowing that your mother is now healthy and whole..and she will be there to help you find your way as you helped her prepare for hers

Best of luck to you, EORapter
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12/11/2017
 
_M_
Member
My prayers and condolences to you, sir

I hope you can take comfort in knowing that your mother is now healthy and whole..and she will be there to help you find your way as you helped her prepare for hers

Best of luck to you, EORapter
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~*Mys~T*~
12/11/2017   
 
Member
Eo, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers and should you ever just need a friendly ear....you need only page...

*gentle hugs*

Terri
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12/11/2017
 
~*Mys~T*~
Member
Eo, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers and should you ever just need a friendly ear....you need only page...

*gentle hugs*

Terri
Post #1040942
elusive
12/11/2017   
 
D/s Event Organizer
D/s Event Organizer
Eo, my heart goes out to you lil bro...

Remember all the good moments you shared,
and that she will always be watching over you as you did for her.
She is in a better place now.

xox


~~~~*~~
"To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done with joy and a whole heart and a free mind." - Pearl S Buck

L'esclave a sa vanité, il ne veut obéir qu'au plus grand des despotes. H. de Balzac
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12/11/2017
 
elusive
D/s Event Organizer
D/s Event Organizer
Eo, my heart goes out to you lil bro...

Remember all the good moments you shared,
and that she will always be watching over you as you did for her.
She is in a better place now.

xox


~~~~*~~
"To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done with joy and a whole heart and a free mind." - Pearl S Buck

L'esclave a sa vanité, il ne veut obéir qu'au plus grand des despotes. H. de Balzac
Post #1040946
~*angel*~
12/11/2017   
 
Member
Omg *sighs and hugs You* so very sorry for Your loss ,will keep You in my prayers
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12/11/2017
 
~*angel*~
Member
Omg *sighs and hugs You* so very sorry for Your loss ,will keep You in my prayers
Post #1040948
~disaster
12/11/2017   
 
-hugs you tightly- You've been with me ever since I found out about my mom talking about yours -hugs you again- I am dreading the day you are going through and I have nothing but thoughts and prayers for you and what you are going through right now you can page me if you need me sweetie anytime -smiles- May your mom R.I.P and be at peace now.
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12/11/2017
 
-hugs you tightly- You've been with me ever since I found out about my mom talking about yours -hugs you again- I am dreading the day you are going through and I have nothing but thoughts and prayers for you and what you are going through right now you can page me if you need me sweetie anytime -smiles- May your mom R.I.P and be at peace now.
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Cradz
12/11/2017   
 
The Owner
The Owner
Sorry to hear the sad news Eoraptor.

I hope you find something soon. Do what you need to do to survive and you can build from there.
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12/11/2017
 
Cradz
The Owner
The Owner
Sorry to hear the sad news Eoraptor.

I hope you find something soon. Do what you need to do to survive and you can build from there.
Post #1040951
Olderfella
12/11/2017   
 
Member Eo..I am so sorry for your loss..please know that you are in my thoughts with hope for a brighter future.
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12/11/2017
 
Olderfella
Member
Eo..I am so sorry for your loss..please know that you are in my thoughts with hope for a brighter future.
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Eoraptor
12/12/2017   
 
Member
Thank you all very much for your thoughts. If anyone is in, or knows someone who is in central or southern Iowa or northern Missouri who is in need of a like-new power chair, I am trying to find a home for hers. Unless you have full ride insurance, these things go for 5-7 grand. And this one comes with extras. So please, if you know someone needing it, I am only asking what is listed.
https://ottumwa.craigslist.org/hab/6422061543.html
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12/12/2017
 
Eoraptor
Member
Thank you all very much for your thoughts. If anyone is in, or knows someone who is in central or southern Iowa or northern Missouri who is in need of a like-new power chair, I am trying to find a home for hers. Unless you have full ride insurance, these things go for 5-7 grand. And this one comes with extras. So please, if you know someone needing it, I am only asking what is listed.
https://ottumwa.craigslist.org/hab/6422061543.html
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~RedHot~
12/13/2017   
 
Member
My condolences to you EO.
May God give you strength and guidance
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Sending you much love
May her memory be eternal
XOXO
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12/13/2017
 
~RedHot~
Member
My condolences to you EO.
May God give you strength and guidance
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Sending you much love
May her memory be eternal
XOXO
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*tori
12/13/2017   
 
Graphics
Graphics
I am so very sorry for your loss...may you find peace and comfort in your memories....*hugs
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12/13/2017
 
*tori
Graphics
Graphics
I am so very sorry for your loss...may you find peace and comfort in your memories....*hugs
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*Trinna*
12/13/2017   
 
Graphics Director
Graphics Director
My condolences for your loss.
It's hard losing a parent. God bless you.
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12/13/2017
 
*Trinna*
Graphics Director
Graphics Director
My condolences for your loss.
It's hard losing a parent. God bless you.
Post #1040969
Phoenix~~
12/14/2017   
 
Member Hugs to you my friend.
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12/14/2017
 
Phoenix~~
Member
Hugs to you my friend.
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ClevelandHost
12/14/2017   
 
Member




MAY GOD GO WITH HER
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12/14/2017
 
ClevelandHost
Member




MAY GOD GO WITH HER
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Eoraptor
12/18/2017   
 
Member
Thank you to everyone again. Tonight is my first night alone in the house... it is already feeling rough.
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12/18/2017
 
Eoraptor
Member
Thank you to everyone again. Tonight is my first night alone in the house... it is already feeling rough.
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Eoraptor
1/15/2018   
 
Member
Passing on an update, am closing the house and turning off the internet this week... from now on I'll be online only during the day at the library and such.
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1/15/2018
 
Eoraptor
Member
Passing on an update, am closing the house and turning off the internet this week... from now on I'll be online only during the day at the library and such.
Post #1041459
~CL~
1/19/2018   
 
Member
I am so sorry for The loss of your mother, I lost my mother four years ago, knowing they are no longer in pain and in a better place Is a big comfort,
I have no comforting words for you, just that time does heal. Hugs
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1/19/2018
 
~CL~
Member
I am so sorry for The loss of your mother, I lost my mother four years ago, knowing they are no longer in pain and in a better place Is a big comfort,
I have no comforting words for you, just that time does heal. Hugs
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{ksenia}P
1/26/2018   
 
Bra Tester
-runs in, late, to wrap Mister Raptor up in the biggest of hugs-

i'm so sorry for your loss and the fear that has come with it. I hope your feet find somewhere solid to land and that the librarian is suitably hot. You are amazing to have walked with her at the end of her journey and supported her. Not everyone can or does do that....so, on behalf of the human race, thank you...for making us a little bit better!

-smooches your cheek-
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1/26/2018
 
{ksenia}P
Bra Tester
-runs in, late, to wrap Mister Raptor up in the biggest of hugs-

i'm so sorry for your loss and the fear that has come with it. I hope your feet find somewhere solid to land and that the librarian is suitably hot. You are amazing to have walked with her at the end of her journey and supported her. Not everyone can or does do that....so, on behalf of the human race, thank you...for making us a little bit better!

-smooches your cheek-
Post #1041769
Eoraptor
1/29/2018   
 
Member I wish that I could say I walked well, but in the last few months we both lost a lot of dignity.

I am somewhat settled in at the new place, and looking for income, etc... Still LOTS of sorting and unpacking to do.
Here's me in our 110 year old Library with the new laptop. http://i63.tinypic.com/qqr58k.jpg (or rather, ON the new laptop) hopefully it will go a ways towards helping me with income.
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1/29/2018
 
Eoraptor
Member
I wish that I could say I walked well, but in the last few months we both lost a lot of dignity.

I am somewhat settled in at the new place, and looking for income, etc... Still LOTS of sorting and unpacking to do.
Here's me in our 110 year old Library with the new laptop. http://i63.tinypic.com/qqr58k.jpg (or rather, ON the new laptop) hopefully it will go a ways towards helping me with income.
Post #1041946
Eoraptor
2/2/2018   
 
Member So here is the latest "fuck you very much" from the state...

https://plus.google.com/+LawrenceHultsII/posts/gWJ2fGhxgbq

the meager money mom left us has already been spent on other bills she had, but none of those meet the legal definition of "bills which supercede medical debts" you know, tiny little things like rent, utilities, etc... I intend to file a hardship waiver, but i FULLY expect them to deny it and demand back money I already spent out to others and don;t have for them.

keep in mind that mom died as a direct result of my having to take her to the doctor and sort out the state mandated issues with her opiate pain killers, because the state refuses to authorize production of the much safer cannibis alternatives, even though the law says they are legal in iowa.

anyone got KY, cause I keep getting fucked without lube?
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2/2/2018
 
Eoraptor
Member
So here is the latest "fuck you very much" from the state...

https://plus.google.com/+LawrenceHultsII/posts/gWJ2fGhxgbq

the meager money mom left us has already been spent on other bills she had, but none of those meet the legal definition of "bills which supercede medical debts" you know, tiny little things like rent, utilities, etc... I intend to file a hardship waiver, but i FULLY expect them to deny it and demand back money I already spent out to others and don;t have for them.

keep in mind that mom died as a direct result of my having to take her to the doctor and sort out the state mandated issues with her opiate pain killers, because the state refuses to authorize production of the much safer cannibis alternatives, even though the law says they are legal in iowa.

anyone got KY, cause I keep getting fucked without lube?
Post #1042089
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