Welcome, Nervous Newbie!!
You're here because you're new to D/s online....maybe not new to all those pervy fantasies that give you the naughty tingles, but certainly to the language and customs of a BDSM dynamic. Worry not - everyone has been there at some point and, if we're honest, half of us don't agree on what most of the words mean
Wanna get the best out of The Pork? [Read this -before- posting a new thread!!]
Go find the D/s chatrooms (The Chamber, The Parlor, The Dungeon)....if they're empty, wait a while....for, if you stay, they will come.
Read the expectations of the rooms before you go in, get a feel of what is expected - once you go in, you're signed up to abide by and chat within those expectations!
Go find a D/s monitor....they wear badges like this one *points*. While none of us claim to have all (or any) of the answers....we have had a gazillion questions ourselves and have different ways and advice for getting some of those questions answered and we're all more than happy to offer suggestions or answer questions to the best of our knowledge/experience....and if we can't, we'll probably know someone who can.
Go explore the D/s Forums: D/s General
- for on going D/s related discussionsBeginner Resources
- for helpful links, articles, reading chosen especially for you in the first steps of your exploration of all the kinky goodness BDSM has to offer. So....now that you've read all that, you've had a look around, followed a rabbit hole of links that lead you to kinks you never knew existed and now you have some specific questions?
Pop 'em on the board below and hopefully some kind soul'll get round to responding - if you really want a response - put your question in the title and stand out!!
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